1. My life
is likely to last 10 to 15 years. Any separation from you will be very painful.
2. Give me time to
understand what you want of me.
3. Place your trust
in me -- it is crucial for my well-being.
4. Don't be angry
with me for long, and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work,
your friends, your entertainment. I have only you.
5. Talk to me. Even
if I don't understand your words, I understand your voice when it's speaking
to me.
6. Be aware that
however you treat me, I'll never forget but always forgive.
7. Before you hit
me, remember that I have teeth that could easily crush the bones in your hand,
but I choose not to bite you.
8. Before you scold
me for being lazy or uncooperative, ask yourself if something might be bothering
me. Perhaps I'm not getting the right food, I've been out in the sun too long,
or my heart may be getting old and weak.
9. Take care of me
when I get old. You, too, will grow old.
10. When the journey
ahead will be difficult for me, please go along. Never say "I can't bear
to watch" or "Let it happen in my absence." Everything is easier for me if
you are there.
Remember,
I love you.
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